How are you lapping your surfaces?
I got hold of a good sized chunk of marble counter top. I spread out some valve lapping compound on the marble (med grit), along with a bit on the head or block (whatever I'm wanting to make flat) then start in using random orbital motion. Using no consistent pattern, go in an oval clockwise, then counter clockwise, then throw in a circular motion, a figure 8, whatever motion comes to mind EXCEPT FOR straight line back and forth. That's a big NO NO !
Every 5 - 7 minutes or so, stop and clean off your surface with Brakleen or whatever. If you have a low spot, it WILL show up. If so, go back at it.
It's time consuming, and it'll give you a work out, but it WILL be flat when you're done !
Once all is flat, give everything a thorough cleaning. Remember to get all of the lapping compound cleaned out as it IS a cutting agent. Follow all the other steps and that engine should run better than ever !!