I feel your pain, bro. If you're using a long breaker bar, the socket should be the same. The art is to get the load "balanced" so the socket stays on the fastener, and then bounce the crap out of that breaker bar. I have a six foot, 3/4" breaker bar that I have to use every now and then.The further away you're from the fastener, the more diligent you have to be about getting that socket on square and getting that load just right. If you try the hot wrench as mentioned above, hit it with a penetrating oil at the hottest temp. The shock will help break the jam and the cooling effect will draw oil deep into the crack.
Every now and then, I find hitting it with a impact gun going forward and THEN reverse will break that lock. You might even take it by an automotive shop and offer one of the mechanics a few bucks to break it loose. Ingersol Rand has a great record in that regard.