So in case anyone cares to partake in the saga:
cabin season 2019 I wasn’t present. Wife made excuses for me (no holidays, sick, dog ate homework) and thanksgiving was wife, mom, dad, and baby Jeff. Usually way more people. No one wants to come out anymore. Wife fesses up and says I’m not coming out anymore because of baby Jeff.
cabin is closed for the season, dad tells wife he doesn’t think he can do this anymore (maintain cabin). Dad starts dropping weight in October and come November our lives will change as we prepare for a battle that can’t be won. I won’t even mention it’s name but starts with the letter c.
jan 2020 we lose our matriarch. Shortly after the death mom dumps onto our lap that she is being verbally and emotionally abused by baby jeff. She blamed Jeff’s enabling on dad and she wants it to stop. She wants baby Jeff to get a job, and start being more independent. She’s terrified of him.
there is also a new virus on its way from China. We don’t know this yet, nor do we know the impact.
the Dust has settled on the estate and mom asks if we’d like to buy half a cabin (needs a wee bit a help in the finances). She’s going to keep the other half, and of course baby Jeff will get the other half.
we aren’t,interested and tell her we will buy the entire cabin. All or nothing. Baby Jeff is welcome to come out but there’s a new sherif in town. He will have to do something and/or bring something.
baby Jeff is furious we are stealing his cabin. It’s not fair! He’s entitled to it. And he’s not going to do what he’s told. Nobody tells him what to do.
word travels were buying the cabin. Neighbors are relieved as we find,out he’s being shooting guns in the back yard, out of boats. Playing loud music, flying a drone around the lake, spying on 15myear old girls tanning (he has the right to do this) he’s picked fights, and is feeding the wildlife. People want it to,stop.
we explain to baby Jeff he will have to change or no more cabin. He threatens me and tells me to watch out.
‘’’the cabin collapses off the foundation and a monumental cabin,season is under way to clean up. Baby Jeff is no where to be found. He’s not helping because he’s lazy, and “it’s not my cabin, not my responsibility“
as we close up the cabin for the season baby Jeff magically appears with a case of beer, bag of weed, etc. he’s planning to come out all winter. I tell him nope. He’s a guest and isn’t welcome until next spring we will try again.
we haven’t signed paperwork with mom cause it’s family right? Baby Jeff flips out on mom and demands 10% of the cabin (not buying he just wants)
we think mom is coming over to sign the papers but instead she comes over to attack me and tell me I’m being to hard on baby Jeff. She says she will only sell us 90% of the cabin and baby Jeff gets 10% when she dies because “she always wants baby Jeff to have access to the cabin”
I refuse and she totally blows up on me. Says I’m controlling, and unreasonable and I always have to get my way. I’m being difficult because I won’t own a cabin with baby Jeff. She doesn’t get it.
she was never selling us a cabin. She,was looking,for us to enable him when she’s dead. Plain and simple.
we don’t speak for 14 months. In the mean time baby Jeff goes to the cabin in 2021. He’s using my new outboard motor without my permission (old motor was sold and proceeds used to purchase new motor so baby Jeff think so it’s the cabins motor, not mine)
mom has lunch this year with daughter and wife. She misses us and wants us all back at the cabin. Wants it to go back to the way it was. She says we don’t have to do any work or pay for anything in lieu of all the work I’ve done. She tells them that she’s gonna hang on to the cabin and baby Jeff will get most of it and my daughter inherits the rest.
my interpretation is she’s now wanting my daughter to enable baby Jeff when she’s dead. My daughter will be 55 and owning a cabin with a 65 yr old unemployed man. Crazy.
so i haven’t been out since 2020. I don’t want to go back and my daughter doesn’t even want to gout never mind own a cabin with a bay Jeff.
this guy is a clown. Mom is still working trying to keep the house and cabin. He’s just happy he’s getting the cabin.
I also found out He borrowed 900 from y daughter and only paid back 400. Nice. Stealing is bad. Stealing from family is pathetic. Stealing,from my daughter is unforgivable.
