The OP's attitude reminds me of many that have invaded the USA from the over the southern border - taxpayer provided food, shelter, phones, transportation, medical, and so on, yet many of them complain that it isn't "good enough". Still others who have been let into the country protest in the streets at the drop of a hat, waving the flags of the countries they ran from.
A grateful attitude goes a long way, regardless of your education, occupation, or personal situation. Recognize when people give you "free stuff" (like their time and expertise) and say, "Thank you". I can't help but think less of Allison Transmissons now - keep in mind you're representing them with your speech and attitude. Maybe someone will refer this entire conversation to people that are paid to manage the reputation of that company.
Finally, I'd like to offer my sincere thanks to the good folks that provide so much help. Many (and I'm one of them) read your comments, apply your knowledge, and are most grateful for having this site and your expertise. Keep up the great work and have a Merry Christmas. I'm hoping for great things in 2024!