I put my volt meter on ohms or connectivity. I put one probe on the negative of the battery and another on the positive of the starter and it beeped. That means it is ground to ground, right? Should it be that way?
Alex
yes it should .
Stop and think about it.
You put power to that post and the starter motor turns so there must be a connection from the + post through to the - battery or the starter will not work.
With these really frustrating problems there is a tendency to go rushing from one bright idea to another,
The only way to do it is to isolate every thing, one item at a time till the culprit is found.
The other thing that is important is to write down each & every thing you have tested,
Apart from the battery itself.
The most common one is the alternator.
Less common are things like 4 pole safety switches leaking to earth
Followed by a chaffed wire
Followed by a faulty ignition switch
And on the subject of batteries it is not uncommon for a supplier to have a shelf full of bad batteries that they bough cheap from a van trader ( because he liberted then from a scrap pile ) so the owner goes back to the same merchant, buys another identical ( and faulty ) battery and assumes that they have a good one just because it is new,