Alot of good information here. Thanks. I'm currently looking for a 20.75" drop blade 2.5" wide (not 3") and a thickness of no more than 0.25" and a center hole of 1-1/8". Someone pointed out 1" to 1-1/8" reducing bushings are available that I could cut the flange off and grind to the thickness of the new blades. These are friction fit blades.If you bothered to check that chart then you would have seen 15/16" is a std blade hole size
Blade thickness is not important for fit
Thicker blades have a lot more momentum so will not die as quick in long tough grasses and of course will take more punishment before it bends .
Thicker blades also require more sharpening to do a good cut and reduce load on the engine . I explain this in terms of line trimmer thickness as almost every one has run line that was too thick through their trimmer at lease once .
Blade width is important as a blades that are too wide will hit each other .
Because blade length is measured diagonally a 20 x 3" blade is actually shorter than a 20 x 2.5" blade so the narrower blades may strike the sides of the deck just the same as blades that are too long will
The notch where the flute starts is there to prevent cracking & allow the flutes to be bent easily it has no functional difference in use
Unless the blade is centred in a 4 jaw chuck and you use a pedestal grinder you will not be able to open out the holes by hand.
The tinest bit off centre left right or front back will have the blade out of balance
The height between the cutting edge & the underside of the deck is CRITICAL ( yes I am shouting in the hope you will listen ) .
Too close and the deck will get overwhelmed with clippings so will clog which can quite easily cause the belt to break
Too far away and the clippings will not discharge properly and the deck will also clog all the time when cutting long grass
In both cases you will end up with blobs of cuttings all over the lawn ( we call them grass turds ) .
Pressed decks are less fussy about this but with fabricated decks with a flat steel plate on the top it is critical
If you find that you can not get original blades then buy a set of all that look like they fit.
Blades are not all that expensive particulaly when compared to buying a replacement mower .
A lot of my customers use different blades at different times in the season and in any case having a spare set ( or 2 ) of sharp blades encourages people to change them when they start to go dull
You get a much better cut & can cut a lot faster with sharp blades