Now remember, you are the one who first began the name-calling and slander of a simple opinionated post I and a couple other users made. Firstly, if women are viewed as not being equal...does that mean they cannot vote in Canada, hold office, receive equal wages for equal services rendered, or I guess I am asking you to clarify in what aspects you consider them unequal(just by looking at one). BTW, I haven't seen any "manly strength" swimmers that have attempted to swim from Cuba to Florida, just to point out a recent woman that is apparently "superior" to her male counterparts!! Your mention of gender incarceration is irrelevant and most likely due to the difference in population density. Your definition of your marital relationship is admirable, yet even though marriage is indeed a "difficult boat to keep afloat" with the changes in society over the last several decades(I too have been happily married for a nice long 33 years and historically marriages in my family have embraced the "til death do we part"). There are different definitions, though, of true leadership even in a marriage and oppression of allowing your "kids to be kids" since running, playing and generally being loud is a quite normal trait of having fun when young and/or a woman loudly verbalizing her displeasure towards excessive in-house activities that have strained her "last nerve" is also normal....would not fit most definitions of true leadership, rather a "my way or the highway" leadership skill with little or no tolerance or freedom to display normal behaviors. IMHO, again my "opinion" true leadership is portrayed by providing guidance rather than authority in a manner that does not cause others to feel threatened or belittled by expressing themselves in a way that "is them". In our society, there has been a obvious trend towards both a man and a woman having a "man cave/shop/etc." or "quiet room" that is some personal space to be undisturbed and unwind to deal with day-to-day stress and has been proven to have health benefits. It is not so much that one or the other has been deprived of their freedom as it is that they benefit from a personal "retreat" for "chilling". And finally I sense some stereotyping in, although sounding appropriate, it not being "manly" to do housework or that women should only be allowed to womanly light work. I take it you have never vacuumed the whole house or scrubbed out the tub & toilet....not exactly what I would call "light work". And....you may be mildly surprised at your wife of 42 year's reaction should you out-of-the-blue volunteer to let her take a break
and you will clean the house from one end to the other:0)
Soooooooo, let's just abandon the sidebar/hi-jacking of this thread with the man-cave debate and agree to disagree on the appropriate/inappropriate dominance of the sexes. So let's see some pictures of your garage which is the intent of this thread and I assure you that I intend sharing some of mine.