Have no idea what you mean by releases, what releases? TDC cannot be arbitrary, it is an exact point. Have no idea what you mean by ( back up, feel resistance, spot on ). This is how I check valve clearances. Remove spark plugs, while rotating engine by hand watch valves until both valves are closed. Insert a small screwdriver into spark plug hole and while rotating flywheel back and forth you will feel piston moving up and down. Find TDC and then rotate flywheel forward until piston moves about 1/4” down. Now check your clearances. If clearances are off, adjust then rotate flywheel through 4 complete cycles. Now repeat the steps to find 1/4” past TDC and recheck clearances. If off repeat procedure until you have clearances within specs. Others have different procedures, but this is the procedure I use when I check and adjust valve clearances. Remember we are not stand there watching what you do, please paint us a better picture.