I used to work as a boat mechanic and one day, a ski boat came in for an oil change. I asked when it was changed the last time and the customer said "Well, that's the thing....". Three years. Then, when his son tried to remove the Fram filter with a screwdriver, he shredded it. To be fair, the top of the filter was more than an inch below the floor of the boat and there wasn't much space between the engine and edge of the floor as it dropped into the bilge.
I tried all of my tools without success and then, one by one, a MAC, Cornwell and Matco driver showed up, offering some of their filter wrenches and none of them worked. I decided to give up for the day and that night, I had a dream about this and solved the problem.
Car, truck, boat, tractor, whatever- if the filter doesn't want to come out and the can has been destroyed, stick the ends of a needle nose pliers into the holes in the filter's base plate and use an adjustable wrench to turn it.