I haven't completed the repair yet but got a lot done. Cleaned fins, removed/cleaned head, checked flatness, lapped valves, decarboned valves/stems, drove valve guide out, tapped a hole in side of head and dimpled an adjacent spot on the valve guide, ground a notch in the valve guide near the rocker arm facing end, put it back in with some Permatex high heat red threadlocker on it, and on a set screw and now that's curing. Also staked the head aluminum around the top of the valve guide.
I already had a generic gasket kit, bought years ago when the exhaust manifold bolts came out, and one of the gaskets was lost. Upon checking it, and having the head off to compare, I now realize that the new head gasket has a little bit (maybe 4mm, I didn't measure it) larger cylinder bore hole, but has just as much coverage of the machined areas on the cylinder and head, and bolt holes line up. Since it's larger rather than smaller, it's probably going to work, right? I mean in theory it might reduce the compression a (tiny?) amount but hopefully not a problematic amount.
It also means I will be trying to reuse the exhaust manifold gaskets since I'd already used those out of this gasket kit, and if they don't seal well enough, can come back later and replace those without having to take off many additional parts for access.
Something occurred to me, that by lapping the valves, I regained at least a fraction of a millimeter in how high the valve stem sits in the head, which places the rocker arm that amount lower on the pushrod end, making up at least a little of the difference in pushrod length which was the issue that started this topic. We'll see, and if at some point in the future the guide pushes back out, I'll be sure to update the topic with that info.