I never use anything but my hands to tighten a spin on filter. Never had a problem with coming loose. I usually get 1/2 to 3/4 turn and i am old with arthritis. My go to tool to get filters off is a pair of Tekton filter pliers. I have a strap wrench 3 different band wrenches the fluted cup set. The Tekton pliers are the best thing i have found to remove filters put on by folks that think tightest is the bestest. I am amazed how many filters i see with strap wrench dents from putting the filter on.