Your efforts are appreciated; some very good members have dropped out due to the hangups.
We are all just trying to help people the best way we can without added aggravations of a slow site.
We appreciate you using the forum! And I want to apologize for the really crappy performance over the past several months. I thought it was more stable than it was because I had "fixed" it a few times over the past months. But while I thought it was something taking time to build up, it was a bug that was almost immediately gumming up the works. It's been only 12 hours since I tried a fix but it SEEMS like I may have found the culprit.
For those curious: A monitoring script was "half-installed" but not configured so it kept trying to login to check the status of the database. But using a wrong username. No big deal? Sure, except it was also set to try to check EVERY MINUTE.
That's been cleared up and fixed and so far it's been about 12 hours and it's been ok. A little too early to claim victory, but fingers crossed.
If anyone notices bugs going forward, comment here and I'll read it and take a look. Thanks again for your patience.