Yes you are setting them backwards.
IT catches a lot of of people , particularly old farts like me who grew up with manual tappet setting so are used to adjusting the lash at the valve stem end .
Mower engines set the gap from the pivot point .
The NUT is what sets the gap and the allen screw is the locking device .
If you ake the whole thing apart you will see the bottom of the nut is balled to fit in the cup of the rocker