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A yes no answer is what is needed
Can you manually turn the engine over for 1 complete revolution.
We need to know if the engine is locked up, siezed, jambed etc.
It COULD be a lot of things which is why you were asked to do a simple test.
From the results of the simple test you will be asked to do other simple tests .
Eventually the results of the simple tests will point to the cause of the no start situation.
The MOST important thing is to take one step at a time.
And as for you solenoid obsession, if the starter motor is making noises and getting hot then the solenoid is passing current to it.
It still might be faulty, but the wires going to it could also be dirty / broken as can th battery wires, the engine main ground or a pile of other things