Ok, we have a place to start. First, how to stop the fuel flow. Take a vicegrip pliers and set it so when clamped over the fuel line no flow. Now you can remove the solenoid. You fill need a thin 1/2" or 9/16" tappet wrench. You may be able to borrow one from your auto mechanic. Unplug and remove the solenoid. Let's do one more test at this time. Hold the case on the neg. terminal of a battery and attach a wire to the solenoid wire and jump it to the pos. terminal. Does the plunger move. If no replace. Let me know what happens.