So.... I feel like a dope but I noticed something when I put the head back on and checked the rocker arms again. Sometimes I will get the full lift out of the exhaust valve, and other times, (most of the time now) it only opens a very little bit. I can't say I've seen that before but I'm guessing a bad lifter? Maybe broken or bent on one side of the contact face of it? I think if it was a camshaft it would be constant so my thinking is that since the exhaust valve isn't always opening properly, it's allowing the extra exhaust gasses to stay in the chamber and be compressed a bit more until the intake valve opens and then it blows out that way. Ugh.. I guess I should have payed more attention initially...