Don't go into hysterics about the numbers.
What is important is they are tight and all the same so there is no weak spot where the gasket can blow.
As you are confessed newbie triple check that you set the valve lash on the compression stroke & not the exhaust stroke.
Both valve should sit roughly parallel in the head.
If one looks a lot further down than the other then it is not on compression.
Worst come to worst you can always go get an insert fitted into the old head.
Get a solid one, not a helicoil or Recoil type wire one.
Most shops should be able to do it for you for around $ 25, as will most auto repair shops , boat shops etc.
Stock in trade for alloy heads but just make sure it is a solid one and from then on put a TOUCH of silver anti-sieze on the threads before you fit the plug.