Clean the mower and engine very well and dry very well to remove all evidence of oil. Don't let your better half see you grab the flour container out of the pantry. Dust the base of the dry engine lightly with some flour and wait. The flour getting wet will show you where it is coming from. Post back the location after you put the rest of the flour away. You don't tell us what type ofengine you have I'm betting a Tecumseh. I'm also betting that the oil will show up first around the base of the oil fill tube, which will mean you will have to replace a $1.50 seal at the bottom of the tube. Did you damage the engine, I doubt it unless you used cooking oil to refill.