Just turn the engine by hand with the plug out and watch the valves, one rocker arm will be pushing the valve down, and as the piston comes back up, it will be letting the valve back up, and as you keep turning past the top dead center the other rocker arm will start moving. That is the TDC that you don't want... just keep rotating
and when you come up to the other tdc, both valves/rocker arms will be still. That is what you want.