I would pick it up as is, don't have them put the flywheel back on. Have them show you how the flywheel is damaged. When you get it home you can explain what they said and we will tell you what we think. We have a repair shop in the area that always try's to over sell on parts. You may be able to savage. If not look around your area for a used flywheel, if it is a popular model someone should have one. I think you should be able to repair yourself if you have a torque wrench. Just my opinion.