Okay, the crankshaft shouldn't be bent if you havent anything large. And yes the blade bolts onto a adapter on the crankshaft.
You would need to buy a special torque wrench to get 30 foot pounds, and it applies a certain pressure to the bolt and holds it in place. but that shouldn't be necessary to use in this case.
may i ask what you're using to tighten the bolt?
And the bolt should have a washer on it, or with it. is that washer still in place, or not laying in the grass anywhere.
As i stated earlier try to buy or order some Blue Loc-tite.
If you use loc tite, pour a little on the bolt and thread it in and get as tight as you can. and that might help with the bolt backing out.
https://www.amazon.com/Permatex-242...words=loctite&qid=1556131742&s=gateway&sr=8-5
another thing is, some times the blade adapter that blade bolts too will have a star shape to it, or a another shape, that the blade hole fits on, like a puzzle, if they are mis aligned the bolt may seem tight, but wont be.
But
usually only riding mowers use the shapes to help hold the blades. I've never seen it on a push mower, yet.
do you have the model number of the mower?